#70: Wholeness and Suffering (with Stephanie Tait)

“There is no failure or shame in being a disabled person who exists in a disabled body and who is not healed. Asking for healing is not asking for wholeness; I am whole. Asking for healing is simply acknowledging that it’s not fun living life in pain.”

— Stephanie Tait

My guest this week is author, speaker, trauma-survivor and disability advocate Stephanie Tait. We had a profoundly deep conversation on the theology of suffering, prosperity, faith, trust, disabilities and ableism, and community. I cried real tears, you guys. I strongly urge every one of you to take the time to listen to this, Stephanie’s wisdom and grace are remarkable and every one of us have something to learn from her.

Resources mentioned:

Support me and my work at patreon.com/jonathanpuddle
Order Stephanie’s book, The View from Rock Bottom: Discovering God’s Embrace in our Pain
Visit Stephanie at stephanietaitwrites.com
Support Stephanie’s work on Patreon
Follow Stephanie on Twitter and Instagram

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